3 Simple Dating Tips Most People Never Consider
There are many places to go for advice on dating, we wanted to give you some of our advice base on our experience gained over the last 27 years.
This may not be the run-of-the-mill advice you’ll get from Dr. Phil or other relationship celebrities, but it is advice we think you would do well to follow.
Tip #1 - Stay Local – You Can’t Cuddle With Someone 3,000 Miles Away
Sure long distance relationships may seem adventurous and exciting, but unfortunately they seldom work. Why? Because it’s easy for people to put up a front or a “mask” for short periods of time.
When you meet someone who lives a long way from you, they are often act different then who they truly are during the limited times they can spend talking to you or seeing you in person.
It’s a shame, but it is often hard to find out what they are truly about because the long distance relationship often serves for some as an escape. In fact, many people really put forward an alter ego when dating someone long-distance because it’s not hard to keep up the disguise for short periods of time.
Also be aware that many people in relationships cheat and try to connect with someone who lives across the country where it would be hard for their spouse to find out.
Tip #2 – Find Someone With Similar Relationship Goals
Perhaps the most common problem encountering singles today is being connected with people who have different relationship goals. In fact, we see it as perhaps the biggest unknown issue singles face today.
Just because two people want to date doesn’t mean they want the same thing in a relationship. If you would like a relationship that could ultimately lead to marriage, meeting someone with no interest in marriage will only cause heartache in the end.
Sure you can have a lot in common and truly enjoy spending time together, but when the day comes to make a commitment they just don’t have it in their goals and they run for the hills.
If you truly want a relationship, don’t fall for the trap into thinking that all dating sites attract people that want relationships. The truth is the biggest and most successful online sites are built to attract casual daters.
Tip #3 - Beware of Masks - Most People Put Their Best Foot Forward
When someone first meets you – their natural inclination is to be on their best behavior because they want you to like them. They often guess what you want to hear and portray themselves as the perfect person for you.
We often refer to this best foot forward phenomenon as the “Me too syndrome.”
Oh you like that, yeah “me too.” You play tennis, yeah “me too.” Oh you go to church, yeah “me too.” You go home and tell your friends, “wow I might have met the one. We are so compatible.”
Whoops. Then the mask comes down and you get to find out what they are truly about. Unfortunately many people promise us the moon but deliver us dirt.
The mask someone wears might be perfect for you, but their true personality is just dead wrong for you in regards to having a meaningful relationship.
It’s very hard to determine compatibility when you first meet, which is why dealing with a matchmaker that gets to know about the people you are meeting can help you from getting into relationships you should have never started in the first place.
Why Matchmaking?
Before we start telling you why to consider matchmaking, let me begin by saying who matchmaking isn’t for.
Who Matchmaking is NOT For
Don’t consider matchmaking if you enjoy the dating games.
People that go to matchmakers dread your type. Matchmaking is for people that can't stand the dating games and want to make a change.
Don’t go to a matchmaker if you have no interest in a relationship.
If you only want casual dating, a matchmaker will be a waste of your time and money. Matchmaking is for people who are serious about a long-lasting relationship and want to do everything possible to stop meeting people who aren't committed towards finding love and happiness.
Stay away from matchmaking if you’re broke.
Matchmaking is an affordable yet meaningful investment in yourself and not for everyone. People that use matchmakers realize that an investment in yourself can be the best decision you can ever make, especially if you are successful and only missing someone special in your life.
Matchmakers are not for pessimists.
If you don’t think something is going to work, well guess what, it’s not. Matchmakers work best for people that have a positive outlook on life. You will not find success unless you believe you can. Sometimes matchmakers don't always get it right the first time, but if you are open minded and work with them, matchmakers can produce amazing results that you would never thought possible.
Don’t go to a matchmaker if you have unrealistic expectations.
There is a difference between meeting the person of your dreams and living in fantasyland. If you are a 6, don’t expect 10’s. Believe it or not, 10’s have high standards too. Sure everyone deserves love, but we all have to be realistic. Matchmakers can cut through the clouds and focus on what is really important in life, which is to find someone who loves you for who you are and can't wait to see you at night.
Above describes the type of people who do not belong at a matchmaker, but here are a few of the reasons you may want to consider using one. Matchmakers:
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Provide a screening process to help make sure people are real
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Weed out undesirable types you would never want to meet
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Cater to relationship minded singles, not casual daters
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Focus on compatibility so you don’t waste time in dead end relationships
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Save you time, energy and effort by doing all the legwork
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Find you fantastic singles you simply wouldn’t find on your own
Matchmaking can truly change your life, but as the saying goes it takes two to tango......
So what are you waiting for, take the first step to see if matchmaking is right for you.
There is no risk or obligation to you......
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It was Einstein that said, “the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result.”
Please don’t get mad it us – we’re not calling you insane. But we do think it is crazy for you to keep searching through the same yahoo personals you have been looking through and aren’t helping you find the person you really want.
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There’s approximately a 50% divorce rate today. (Now that’s insane… and very sad too)
But let’s take the other 50% who stay married. How many of those people have good quality relationships? How many of those people have the relationship they dreamed of? Very few.
Many people stay together, in terrible relationships, because of kids, finances, religious beliefs or maybe just out of convenience. But their personal relationships lack vitality and real love. Often times they put up a good front, but they are miserable on the inside.
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While this may all seem obvious, most people simply don’t know how to find someone truly compatible.
Do you know the old saying “opposites attract?” Well it’s absolutely true. But their relationships don’t last!
When opposites get together they are often fantastic in the beginning, but they usually have big swings. If you’ve ever been in a roller coaster relationship you’ll surely relate.
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